A 5-DAY LIVE ONLINE IMMERSION 19-23rd OCTOBER
Break the Cycle of Unavailable Men
End the pattern for good FOR GOOD – and attract a man who is emotionally available, committed, and ready to show up and choose you.
A 5-DAY LIVE ONLINE IMMERSION 19-23rd OCTOBER
Break the Cycle of Unavailable Men
Stop repeating the pattern FOR GOOD – attract a man who is available, committed, and ready to choose you.
You are here because something in you knows: I can’t keep doing this.
Not another connection that starts with so much promise that goes nowhere.
Not another man you over-invest in.
Not another cycle of hope → confusion → disappointment.
Not another year of repeating the same patterns with different men.
Real Women. Real Stories.
If this feels painfully familiar, this is for you
You're tired of giving so much to men who never seem to give you the same love, effort or commitment back.
You keep giving men a chance, even when deep down you know they're not available to the relationship you actually want.
You've done SO much work on yourself, yet somehow you keep ending up in the same painful pattern with a different man.
You want to believe love is possible for you, but a part of you is starting to wonder if you'll ever happen.
And even when you meet a man who could be right for you, you struggle to feel attracted, let him in or trust that it could actually work
You’re not consciously choosing unavailable men. But something within you keeps drawing you towards men who can’t give you what you want.
And no matter how much you understand the pattern, or how hard you try to change it, you keep finding yourself back in the same place.
This is your opportunity to uncover what’s really keeping the pattern alive, so you can finally begin to shift it and open yourself to the secure, committed love you deeply desire.
Inside the 5-day live experience
Why unavailable love keeps repeating — even when you know what you want and have already done so much work on yourself
Why you can consciously want a secure, committed relationship, yet still find yourself drawn to the men and dynamics that can't give you what you want
The hidden pattern underneath who you choose, what you tolerate and why you stay — so you can finally see what has been keeping you stuck.
Why awareness alone hasn't changed the pattern — and what actually needs to shift for you to stop recreating the same experience with a different man.
How to recognise when the old pattern is running the show, before you lose months or years hoping this time will be different.
You cannot create a different experience of love while the same unconscious pattern is still running the show.
That is why so many women have done years of inner work, understand their attachment patterns, recognise the red flags and promise themselves they’ll never settle for less again.
Yet, somehow, find themselves back in the same place.
Because understanding a pattern doesn’t mean you’ve stopped living from it.
Over these 5 days, we’ll go beyond what you already know and uncover what’s still keeping this pattern alive. The deeper patterns that shape who you’re attracted to, what you accept, and why you keep finding yourself in relationships that leave you wanting more.
So you can stop repeating the past and begin creating a different experience of love.
Inside the 5-day live experience
- Why unavailable love keeps repeating — even when you know what you want and have already done so much work on yourself
- Why you can consciously want a secure, committed relationship, yet still find yourself drawn to the men and dynamics that can't give you what you want
- The hidden pattern underneath who you choose, what you tolerate and why you stay — so you can finally see what has been keeping you stuck
- Why awareness alone hasn't changed the pattern — and what actually needs to shift for you to stop recreating the same experience with a different man.
- How to recognise when the old pattern is running the show, before you lose months or years hoping this time will be different.
You cannot create a different experience of love while the same unconscious pattern is still running the show.
That is why so many women have done years of inner work, understand their attachment patterns, recognise the red flags and promise themselves they’ll never settle for less again.
Yet, somehow, find themselves back in the same place.
Because understanding a pattern doesn’t mean you’ve stopped living from it.
Over these 5 days, we’ll go beyond what you already know and uncover what’s still keeping this pattern alive. The deeper patterns that shape who you’re attracted to, what you accept, and why you keep finding yourself in relationships that leave you wanting more.
So you can stop repeating the past and begin creating a different experience of love.
Real Women. Real Stories.
5 DAYS TOGETHER. 3 LIVE SESSIONS. DAILY ACCESS TO ME.
19–23 October | Live Online | £27
For five days, I’m opening a live, intimate space for women who are ready to make 2026 the end of unavailable love. Here’s exactly what’s included:
3 LIVE SESSIONS
More than another masterclass
Three live sessions with me across the five days, bringing together teaching and embodiment, where I’ll work with everyone in the room to help you go beneath the patterns and begin shifting what’s happening underneath, so that you can stop repeating the same painful dynamics and attract the love you want.
Session 1: Monday 19 October
Session 2: Wednesday 21 October
Session 3: Thursday 22 October
7.30–9.30 pm UK time
All sessions held live on Zoom
5 DAYS OF DAILY ACCESS TO ASA BAAV
Real-time coaching
I’ll be with you inside our private Telegram group for the full five days, coaching and guiding you through what’s unfolding in real time.
Bring what’s coming up for you, what you’re navigating, where you feel stuck, or where you can see the old pattern taking over. This is a live space for us to work with what’s actually happening for you, not just talk about it in theory.
INTEGRATION + COMMUNITY
Knowing your pattern isn’t the same as changing it
You can know your pattern, why you do it, and still find yourself repeating it the moment you’re triggered. That’s why these five days aren’t just about awareness.
You’ll have space to integrate what comes up, practise something different in the moments the old pattern wants to take over, and be supported alongside women doing the same.
Because this is how we begin to move beyond knowing the pattern, and start becoming the woman who no longer needs to repeat it, where something new can be created.
By the end of our five days, you’re no longer left wondering why unavailable love keeps happening — you can finally see exactly what has been keeping you stuck and what needs to shift for you to become available for the love you want.
The results speak for themselves.
84% of my 1:1 clients starts a conscious, committed partnership within 12 months.
I was stuck in a pattern of attracting unavailable men, rooted in low self-worth. I can’t recommend her work highly enough. I am now in a relationship that is unfolding into something very beautiful.
Jamie, Canada
This was exactly what my inner child needed, and I am now in a relationship where I feel respected, heard, and valued with a man who shows up for me.
Chelsea, US
If you’ve reached that stage in your life where you’ve just had enough of toxic, unfulfilling relationships then you need to work with Asa! Within just a few weeks, I met my fiancé.
Nic, Ireland
After 18 months of therapy including CBT, personal counselling, and marriage counselling I can honestly she has had the most positive impact on my life
Faz, London
After 60 minutes with Asa I ended a year long situationship, and for the first time asked myself what I wanted and started asking for it early on in dating, within two months I met my partner.
Rachel, London
WHO THIS IS FOR
This is for the woman who knows the pattern, but knowing hasn’t been enough to change it.
This 5 day live training is about understanding why unavailable love ever felt like home in the first place.
You’ve done the work. You’ve become more aware of your patterns. You know what you want, what you need, and the kind of relationship you want to create.
And yet, when you really like someone, you can still find yourself right back in a familiar dynamic.
You give another chance. You make excuses. You over-invest. You know he can’t meet you, but you still can’t quite let go.
Because there is a difference between seeing the pattern and shifting what is actually driving it.
And that is where we’re going over these 5 days.
We’re intentionally moving beyond surface-level dating advice:
- ❌ No 5 signs…
- ❌ No dating scripts
- ❌ Just raise your standards
Because the part of you that knows better isn’t always the part of you in the driving seat when your heart is involved.
And until you can see what is driving you in those moments, you can keep knowing exactly what you want — and still find yourself living the same pattern.
If you’re ready to stop asking “Why does this keep happening?”
And finally understand what has been keeping you in unavailable love – so you can make space for the kind of relationship you actually want.
This is where we begin.
About Asa Baav
For the past 7 years, I’ve been deeply immersed in this work, supporting women who keep finding themselves in unavailable dynamics to build relationships rooted in authenticity, safety, and real commitment.
The results speak for themselves, with 84% of my 1:1 clients entering conscious, committed relationships within 12 months
And I live this work in my own life too. I’m in a conscious relationship with my partner, David, and together we support both singles and couples in navigating modern love as he happens to be a Men’s coach. Long story short, we met on his podcast 7 years ago, and the rest is history.
Working with women, men, and couples has given me a rare, 360-degree view of what actually changes relationship patterns, and the shifts that help singles find their forever love and keep it.
About Asa Baav
For the past 7 years, I’ve dedicated my work to understanding what actually changes the patterns we repeat in love, not just intellectually, but in how we choose, relate and love.
I work with women who are self-aware and have often already done years of personal development, therapy and healing, but still find themselves repeating the same painful patterns in relationships.
And the results speak for themselves: 84% of my 1:1 clients have entered a conscious, committed relationship within 12 months. And we have celebrated 5 client weddings, 4 engagements and 3 babies.
Women who, before working with me, were stuck in a loop of unavailable love, despite their hardest efforts to change it – yet, nothing was truly changing.
My work brings together various modalities such as parts work, nervous system regulation, Jungian psychology, attachment, conscious creation and relating, somatic and embodiment work.
I also work with couples alongside my partner of 7 years, David, a men’s relationship coach, which has given me a rare perspective into both sides of the relationship dynamic – what women experience, what men experience, and what actually happens when two people come together.
But I didn’t learn this work from a textbook.
Over the last 10 years, I’ve worked with and learned from some of the world’s leading coaches, therapists, somatic practitioners, and teachers in relationships, attachment, embodiment, and personal transformation.
I know what it is to be the woman who keeps choosing unavailable love
I’ve lived the patterns I now help women change to build the secure, committed relationship and family I deeply wanted.